I like to push my own limits. Its awesome when I find out what I'm capable of and I love it. Its one of the reasons why I love doing Tri so much.
Sometimes I like to push others' limits too. They find out things about themselves they never knew.
But a reminder to self. Don't push others' limits too far. Getting mad at myself is very different from getting others mad. I have a tendency to do that and I need discernment.
On a learning curve.